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published: March 10th, 2010 | category: items of interest


I was sorting through my photos last night on the computer when  I came across this one which was taken when Miss H was just a week old. It reminded me of how very much aware I was at that moment of how life changing motherhood is, altering how I view the world each day. Having a baby in my life has its challenges, but it also has perks that cannot be compared with any other role…

1. I can finally embrace & understand the term “mother instinct”.

2. I can forget about many of the things that used to stress me out so much (read: corporate ladder) because they actually don’t matter at all.

3. A single cheeky grin, or belly laugh can turn an otherwise crappy day into something  blissful.

4. When my baby cries, the mere holding close/nursing calms her

5. I  think about the future in a bigger and more optimistic way - picturing her heading off to school and to her first dance class

6. If I nap/sleep with her, our breathing/heart beats become unison.

7. I anticipate little things like the first time she says “Mumma”, taking those first steps, and cruising in for an un-prompted cuddle

8. My awareness of safety, health and all round responsibility intensifies as I  don’t want to jeapordise a moment of living with this wonderful being.

9. Through my intimate connection and attachment to my baby, I am healing myself of hurts from the past.

10. Following my baby throughout the day as she learns and grows reminds me to slow down and that life is a journey rather than a destination.

published: March 7th, 2010 | category: items of interest



How many of us actually get the time to do proper birth announcements? Unfortunately they’re not the type of thing you can arrange before the baby arrives, and for me it was one of those things I had all good intentions of doing and … well you know the rest.

Now there’s an online option that is so easy and (yes) cheap, that you’d almost be crazy not to. www.lullabybirthannouncements.com gets you to simply select your design, upload your photo, fill in the text and the designer will pull it all together for you for a cost of US$10. You can then share your jpeg file on Facebook or email and if you want to hang it up on the fridge it costs just 80 cents a print out.   If you’ve passed the birth announcement phase, you can also do baptism announcements. We’re thoping she expands to birthday announcements too! Check out this great service at www.lullabybirthannouncements.com

published: February 23rd, 2010 | category: items of interest, natural baby products, nursery

 

Many years ago (pre-children) I suffered from poor health (CFS) and made the decision to remove everything toxic from my home (or as much as I could).  I read countless books and articles online which revealed that my home was filled with products that posed significant risks to my health.  Now that I’m responsible for two little beings, I am even more conscious and determined to keep them out of my home. Below are just a few of the toxic products avoided in our household, as well as WHY we avoid them.   

 

 Air fresheners:

Most air fresheners mask odors with a synthetic fragrance or numb your sense of smell with chemical anesthetics. But, they do nothing to eliminate the source of the odor. Also, aerosol air fresheners spew out tiny droplets of chemicals that are easily inhaled into the lungs. Instead, ventilate well and choose natural deodorisers, such as baking soda, which contain minerals that absorb odors.  Other more natural ways to freshen  indoors naturally include using plants, ionising lamps and of course natural air fresheners such as those purchased from health food stores..

 Oven and toilet bowl cleaners:

 These can be the nastiest. Corrosive or caustic cleaners, such as the lye and acids found in drain cleaners, oven cleaners and acid-based toilet bowl cleaners, are the most dangerous cleaning products because they burn skin, eyes and internal tissue easily. We use NZ brand Eco-store which can now be found in most supermarkets.  


Plastic Food Storage Containers:

Knowing that BPA containing plastics can cause all sorts of health problems, we spent a long time seeking out a BPA free plastic food container range . We found a fantastic range in the USA (preserve) , which bebe now stocks.  There is no need to check for codes or not know which part of their range is healthy – the entire range is made from recycled plastic and BPA free, which is great for peace of mind when it comes to left overs, work lunches and of course school lunches.

Canned food:

Food cans are lined with an epoxy resin that contains bisphenol-A (BPA). Most experts believe this is our main source of exposure to BPA, which has been linked to hormone disruption, obesity, heart disease, and much more. Eden Foods is currently the only company with BPA-free canned foods (other than the canned tomatoes, which they haven’t found an adequate substitute for given the acidity of the tomatoes). We still have organic tinned chickpeas sometimes (makes for a super fast hommous dip!), otherwise we opt for fresh, frozen, dried or jarred foods.

Bottled water:

Most people buy bottled water thinking they’re avoiding any contaminants that may be present in their tap water. For the most part, they’re wrong. Bottled water can be just as, or even more, contaminated than tap water. In fact, some bottled water IS tap water - just packaged (in plastic that can leach chemicals into the water) and over-priced.  We have invested in  reusable stainless steel water bottles and am alkalised water system which we believe has contributed to great health.

Rubber duckies
:

How does such a cute toy end up on a toxic product list? When it’s made from PVC - the poison plastic. Banned in over 14 countries and the European Union, PVC, also known as vinyl, is still legally sold by Australian  retailers although it threatens environmental and consumer health at every stage of its product life cycle.  We’ve sourced some fantastic new  BPA free bath toys which we’ll be launching online and in store in the next 2 weeks – so stay tuned!

Oil-based paints and finishes:

 There are 300 toxic chemicals and 150 carcinogens potentially present in oil-based paint. It’s so common to paint the nursery when pregnant as part of teh nesting process (I did it myself too!), so it’s great to be aware of healthier options. When painting we look for water-based options - ideally those that are low- or no-VOC. We also  explore natural finishes like milk paint and vegetable or wax based wood finishes. Porters Paints offer some of these more natural options.

 

published: February 10th, 2010 | category: items of interest

. . .and just like that we are already a month into 2010 and the bebe January Review Winners of a $50 Virtual Voucher are:

Ellen Acheson,

Kate Rice and

Justine Leopold.

Congratulations to this month’s winners, keep up the great review work and who knows you could have a nice $50 virtual voucher arriving in your email next month.

published: February 3rd, 2010 | category: items of interest, parenting tips

·         Confused about baby sleep advice?

·         Concerned about the impact of baby sleep training regimes such as controlled crying?

·         Looking for gentle baby sleep and settling techniques that WORK?

Best selling baby sleep author, Pinky McKay presents a ‘not to be missed’ seminar for both parents and health professionals!

Sleep, Love and Your Baby’s Brain
New evidence shows that some approaches to ‘teaching babies to sleep’ may cause long term, adverse changes to a baby’s developing brain.

Pinky McKay (author, Sleeping Like a Baby, 100 Ways to Calm the Crying, Internationally Certified Lactation Consultant and infant massage instructor), examines this evidence and offers gentle options to encourage infant sleep and settling that also promote optimum brain and emotional development, along with a secure parent-infant bond. Babies welcome!

Pinky is holding seminars in Melbourne in the months of February and March,2010

 

Interested? Read More.

published: January 16th, 2010 | category: items of interest

 

I’ll admit it. I have judged another Mum. I’m sure sometimes I’m not even aware that I’m doing it, but I know I’ve done it and without personal discipline may well do it again.  I’m also quite sure my parenting choices are regularly judged by other Mums, particularly since being an attachment parent is not something that is common in mainstream Western society. 

Almost every Mum  has opinions on how other people parent.  “She‘s having another caesarean?” or “Her child STILL uses a dummy!” are all comments we’ve heard or even (gasp!) said. Check out these 10 ways mums judge other mums.

 

Birthing choices

It’s just as common for a woman having a caesarean to be labelled as ‘too posh to push” as it is a woman having a homebirth to be labelled irresponsible. With birth being such a personal experience there will always be strong opinions.  

 

Breastfeeding

Ask a mother if she thinks an 18 month old baby should be breastfeeding, and she probably has a word or two to say about it.

 

 Working Mum

Many mums don’t need other women to pile on the mother guilt when it comes to their careers — they do it enough on their own. Still, some traditional ladies believe a woman’s place is in the home while others pride themselves on contributing to the workforce. Some work for balance or financial reasons.

 

 Wild Child Behaviour

It’s easy to criticize a wild child when mum’s got an angel seated beside her. But, the parent of the crazed kiddo may love his spunk and spirit and loathe the calmness of the other.

 

Too Much TV Time

Television is also known as baby crack. Children could sit for hours watching it, but it’s up to the parents to limit their intake. Some are absolutely against their babes ever viewing it while others enable their child to watch it for hours.

 

Bedtimes

Some mums are strict about bedtimes while others let their wee ones choose their snoozing hours. For those on a stringent schedule, the unknown is too chaotic. The parents with the lax bedtime may cringe at the clock driven time line.

 

Timeliness

She’s always 15 minutes late. If tardiness is her thing, someone is going to call her on it.

 

A Messy House

Not everyone has the resources or desires to keep a shipshape house. Mums that are compulsive about cleanup may despise the messy house of a friend and harried moms may find a well-kept abode too sterile for their liking.

 

A Naughty Restaurateur

Some parents let their wee ones rule the roost, even if it’s at a quaint eatery. There will be patrons that won’t mind, and there will be some begging for the tiny consumers to go home.

 

Eating Habits

Too much ice cream and not enough veggies. Some kiddos load up on McDonald’s while others are fine with broccoli. Many mums are not lacking in the food advice department.

 

published: December 17th, 2009 | category: items of interest

A friend sent me a link to this great site that allows the man in the red suit to send a personalised video message . I wasn’t so sure until I experienced it for myself and it really is very cool, so I just had to share.

It is called the Portable North Pole. Put simply, you add in your childs name, age, gender, what type of toy they asked for and are receiving, and even what question they would want Santa to answer, and you add a picture of your child at the end, believe me you WANT to add the picture!

When you have filled out the information, you get a short video message from Santa. It includes ALL the information you you put in about your child and makes it into this very personal message from Santa. Its so simple, and its free.  

My gut is wanting me to type “What will they think of next?” but my head is saying this could come off as a little old-fashioned and detached from this new technolological age.  Best you just head over to portablenorthpole.tv .

published: December 8th, 2009 | category: items of interest

A friend of mine shared a great idea the other day to save my kids artwork – she suggested I take digital photos  and then print or convert to a photo book.  It was then that I discovered online that Red Stamp have taken it a step further , as they enable you to pass on these little works of art to those people who will appreciate them as much as you do. Their Custom Kid-Designed Stationery turns kid-art into one-of-a-kind flat cards that can become gifts for grandparents, parents, or even for my kids themselves.  They would also make great thank you cards. RedStamp will even take your child’s signature and put it on the back of the card.

What makes RedStamp original is that it doesn’t just print the artwork as-is on a card; their designers actually borrow elements from the original and place it in a way that makes the best designed card. So it showcases your child’s talent, but still leaves room for personal messages.
RedStamp is a US website, but they DO ship to Australia. Right now they’re offering 10% off everything on their site with the code CMPMERRY, which should help out with those shipping costs. Check them out here www.redstamp.com

published: December 2nd, 2009 | category: items of interest, melbourne store information

We’re now open Sundays 11am-4pm, which means we’re open seven days! We thought we’d share some of our favourite places and ideas that are within just a few steps of bebe

Start your day with a latte from picnic, just a few doors down from us. Our Kelly just so happened to be there waiting for his Soy Latte when the photographer took this photo. Nothin’ like a true local, eh?

You can’t miss Noah’s Aeroplane (next door!). Deck your little one out in an outfit from Noah’s and he/she will be quite the Christmas Fashionista.

With Egg Maternity, Premaman and Pea in the Pod all within a few metres of each other (and us),  you’re bound to find yourself a cute frock for Christmas and New Years. If you’re not pregnant… ummm.. we’re sorry we suggested it. You may like to skip on over to Chapel.. 

Chicks Love Chapel with good reason. It is loaded with a bunch of great boutiques, and maintains a vibrant and unique shopping strip experience. We won’t list all the store’s, but we can just about guarantee you’ll find something yummy there.

Speaking of yummy, if you havent experienced French Fantasies yet, you may wish to save your appetite (see how far that morning coffee will take you!). French Fantasies bake their pastries on the premises, and are to die for. Why not pick up a roast vegie baguette for your picnic lunch…

The Botanic Gardens is the perfect place to sit and take a load off on a sunny afternoon.  Its perfect for picnics and the Children’s garden is just a delight for littlies.

Enjoy!

 

published: November 26th, 2009 | category: items of interest

 

 

Advent calendars are a great way to help kids understand how long they have to wait until Christmas.  We still have ours from last year and whilst I’m looking forward to getting it down from the cupboard over the weekend, the thought of Liam starting each day with a 6am  piece of chocolate doesn’t sit 100% with my nutritional values!

 

This morning stumbled upon a great craft website (www.kidscraftweekly.com) that shares ideas for making your own advent calendar. Great concept for the crafty types (and those that have the time between now and Monday). What they also suggested is including a fun family activity for each day from December 1 – 24. We love these ideas, and that I may perhaps mix up our calender this year – an edible  treat one day followed by a fun activity the next. Before we all know it, Christmas will be here and we’ve all celebrated the lead up in a fun way as a family (woo hoo!).

 

Advent Calender Activity Ideas

 

1. Paint everyone’s toenails
2. Have hot chocolate with all the fixings (we might do milkshakes if it’s too hot)
3. Star gazing
4. Give everyone crazy hairstyles
5. Backyard cricket
6. Go out for sushi
7. Have an indoor picnic
8. Write letters to Father Christmas
9. Use puppets to tell bedtime story
10. Have breakfast for dinner (I am thinking pancakes)
11. Make decorations for the tree
12. Have a camp out around the christmas tree
13. Pack a picnic dinner and have it at a park (or Botanical Gardens)
14. Fancy dress for dinner time
15. Wrap a toy and take it to a charity christmas tree
16. Make handmade gift tags for relatives
17. Fish and Chips for dinner down at the beach
18. Fold origami for the christmas tree
19. Dance like crazy to music
20. Watch a christmas movie with popcorn
21. Go out for gelati
22. Take Grandparents out to see the Christmas lights
23. Have a bubble bath
24. Special christmas Eve treat TBA

 

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