
by Pinky,
Children absorb the world through all of their senses - hearing, sight, smell, touch and taste. Touch is the first sense to develop and your child’s body (just like your own) is covered with very sensitive touch receptors. Through this he will receive information about hot and cold, hard and soft, smooth and rough, what hurts and what feels good. When his sense of touch is working properly, messages to your child’s brain will sehim touching appropriately - he will quickly take his hand off a hot heater and he might (just maybe!) keep a jumper on if it is really cold.
You can encourage the development of your little one’s immature nervous system through tactile experiences as well as movement. Stimulation of your child’s senses enchances his development as more neural ‘connections’ are made in your toddlers rapdily developing brain and this will help with sensory perception which helps your child make sense of his world - literally!
If this all sounds quite overwhelming and you are wondering, ‘what do I need to do?’ Please relax. For the first couple of years, all you need to do is provide lots of cuddles and love and your child will soak up the natural sensory excperiences of his environment - skin to skin contact as you feed him, cuddle him and massage his little body and also the feeling of clothes and fabric against his skin or your own clothing as you hold him; movement as you carry and rock him, bounce him on your knee, dance with him and push him in a stroller or on the swings at the park; tastes as he tries different foods with different tastes and textures; his sense of smell will be stimulated by cooking smells (freshly brewed cofffee, warm bread) at home or out and about as ewll as smells in his environment such as freshly mown grass in spring, wet leaves in autumn, flowers or herbs in the garden, and there will be no shortage of interesting noises - from birds singing, wind chims, insects buzzing, cars tooting or people chattering and music playing.
You can also plan activities that provide lots of sensory play - from listening games (get him to close his eyes and guess the noise as you ring a bell, munch an apple, pour water or scrunch paper) to activities that involve smelling, feeling and tasting.
For some fun play that will stimulate your child’s senses, especially his sense of touch, try some of the fabulous ideas from Toddler Tactics by Pink McKay (available at bebe), such as this ‘Pizza Massage’:
Pizza Massage
Massage is a lovely way to stay in touch with your child. It also helps develop your child’s nervous system. Here is a game that will encourage even the most active toddler to stay (fairly) still as you massage.
Offer to made a massage ‘pizza’ on your child’s back. Get your little one to help chooser ‘ingredients’ - as you decide each ingredient, alter your massage strokes to represent the ingredient. For instance:
‘Roll’ out the dough (long firm strokes with your palms across the child’s back from side to side - smaller circles to get the dough ‘into the corners’),
‘Spread’ tomato paste - (smooth strokes)
‘Chop’ vegetables (chopping with the sides of your hands).
‘Sprinkle’ (finger taps) cheese.
Let your imagination (and your child’s) run wild - happy ‘cooking’.
For more great tips to enhance your parenting life, see Pinky McKay’s books available here at Bebe, or visit Pinky’s website for information about Pinky and her workshops for parents.